Sir Leonard's Story
This page is long but please read the entire page for a complete understanding of our nature.
Thanks! Through the many years I’ve have gained a lot of knowledge and experience, and the basic motivation for publishing this website is to pass on what I have learned. In fact it is more like I'm the librarian or curator of the depository of wisdom. The knowledge, experience and wisdom of a few hundred years of focused effort are distilled into this website, with contributors from all over the world. From Australia, United States, England, Wales, The Netherlands, France, Germany and many more countries over 140 Dominants have helped in the development of this project.
When I was about 18 (40 years ago), I began realizing that I was quite Dominant. Some of the girls I dated complained about it and told me to take a hike. Others however seemed to enjoy being "bossed" around. I liked the ones that I could boss around, matter of fact; I liked one of those "submissive" types so much I married her. Turned out however that monogamy was not my thing and we called it quits. Next time around (next marriage) we decided to have an open marriage and we both got into wife swapping. That was fun.
A couple of years after we had begun our swapping life we met another couple that was quite different than most the horn dogs we had known. He was very refined, almost like British royalty. His wife was amazingly submissive, wore a thick leather collar, never spoke unless spoken to, would remove her outer garments as soon as we were in a private place, stood or knelt at her Masters side until told to do otherwise, and sucked cock like a Hoover vacuum cleaner. But there was more to it than that. She always looked elegant and even with a dick sticking out of her mouth she had this air about her. The man (His name was Roger, although he preferred Sir Roger) was always a gentleman. I never heard him swear, his attire was proper, and he too, exuded class. In our past swapping experiences the couples would always separate to secluded bedrooms or even separate houses/motel rooms, but with Sir Roger and wench dianne (they ask to be called by those titles) it often occurred while the four of us were in one room. It seemed more like art than lust. My wife faith, and dianne became great friends. There was absolutely no undercurrent of jealousy or competition and they were in contact almost every day for several weeks. During that period I noticed great changes in my wife. She started looking even better than she had, makeup always applied, hair attended to and she exercised daily. She began to wear only open nipple bras, stockings, garter belts and heels all the time and would immediately strip down to them as soon as we were in private, every time, everyday. There was more than just her attire, her whole nature began to blossom. The way she walked, talked, and fucked had a new polish (I call it panache). She seemed to be in a state of constant erotism and politely and submissively focused on sexual activities.
Sir Roger and I worked together and we became good friends as well. Finally one day, I asked where the hell this aura of theirs came from. Roger smiled and said that he had been waiting for me to ask. Then Roger went on to explain that he was associated with a society of men whose singleness of purpose was the domination and development of their females for sensual and sexual indulgence. He realized that I didn't quite understand and so he reworded it to fit my level of sophistication. "We like to make our women into sex slaves."
He stopped there and asked if I would swear to never reveal the name or nature of his "club" to anyone unless I was honestly attempting to recruit someone into the society. I agreed and then he explained that if I were to become a neophyte in his group I would be his student. I also would need to be totally respectful and compliant to his instruction. At that, I kind of revolted and we let it go for a couple of weeks. During that time however my wife just kept getting better, prettier, and so very appealing that I decided to subjugate myself to this Sir Roger, if only to learn his secrets.
Years went by and I learned so much! What I thought was just an enjoyable diversion became the center of my life. An obsession if you will, but so much more. I learned about philosophy, psychology, anatomy, morals, refinement, panache and mostly human nature. To someone that has not traveled this path, that may sound exaggerated, but it is my reality. To start with, when you have complete control over another human being and that human being is your mate you become very aware of their body, soul, and spirit. If you are of any moral character you will wish to do no harm. Yet when that subordinate person has declared and demonstrated that they wish to serve you absolutely, further wish to be trained to serve at their very possible best, and they go on to even proclaim their need of mental and physical discipline with corporal punishment for assistance in said training, you become very focused.
Let me give some examples: Sir Roger, my sponsor now, for instance, would call upon me to teach my submissive to learn to eat more sensually. So the simple act of eating becomes now more intense because you teach, but also learn to slow down and savor each morsel. With instruction, sex was a totally new and wonderful experience, what used to take a half hour now becomes an evening. The slow build up and show, the intense foreplay, the act, and finally the delight in the afterglow. Camaraderie is another area of enjoyment! You cannot imagine the friendship that grew between Sir Roger and I. Don't misunderstand, he and I are totally heterosexual, but sharing thoughts and wives at this level has no equal in the vanilla world that you earthlings exist in. Then there is the sheer joy of watching a quite inhibited newbie (especially in this Puritanical United States) as he grows into a worldly and contented man. It always amazes me on how much the teacher learns when called upon to instruct the student.
This Master/slave lifestyle and "The Society" became our life and all our free time became focused on learning, teaching and enjoyment. My work was my work and I did it the best I could. There were no distractions and no new skirts I needed to sniff. All the sniffing was waiting at home or at the parties I attended. My wife was a stay-at-home wife; she needed time to make the home and herself ready for us when I got home. Oddly, I was the most loyal husband a woman could want, if you take into account we always had a new submissive living with us that we both took great joy in training. My wife also, was completely faithful, she would only suck and fuck those men I directed her towards and most often while I watched. Our circle of friends was truly intimate (as you can imagine) and we had a wonderfully large circle of like-minded and kindred spirits.
After about 8 years of our wondrous journey into the lifestyle I had learned much about the society I had become so active in. Sir Roger even disclosed to me that the best selling book, "The Story of O" was actually written by a submissive of a society member and her Master had instructed her to do so as a training manual and as a marketing tool. I found out that "Roissy" was not a fantasy but really did exist and that there also existed a similar "school/gentlemen's club" in the USA. Turns out that the society had several very wealthy and very busy members who required their girlfriends properly trained right here in the good old land of the free. It was presented to me that although they were an ancient group they liked to take advantage of the latest technologies and that they wanted me to computerize their internal affairs.
So it began and over the years that followed and as technology grew, I created system after system for them. Then, in 1997, they decided that the system should be distributed to their members via the Internet and that I should create a downloadable desktop version for individual members to be used at home. After that was in place, I began to request that I be allowed to make the software public. Up until that point the site was quite hidden and one would have to be told where it might be found. I met great resistance to the idea, but finally the leaders caved and allowed me to publicly and very delicately, market the program. By 1999 we were off and running. I was producing updates monthly and we were accumulating members at a moderate rate. I was having great fun and it looked like I was set for life, now I could devote all my time to my passion. Or so I thought.
The specters of bigotry, chauvinism, and homophobia had never come up before. We were all white males but that was just how it was, I had never thought about it. Now, however the questions started and I quickly learned that the society was not interested in having other races involved and certainly not women dominants. And God help us if a gay couple wanted our software. To make a long story short, I left the society, taking with me a good sized group of my friends, but regrettably not my best friend and mentor Sir Roger.
We formed a new group and called them "The Guild" and I began widening the software to welcome all flavors, shapes and sizes. The "desktop" format made updating very difficult and the old society kept nipping at me that the base was theirs and not mine. So in 2003, I closed down the old site and started producing a web-active version of the software, totally separate and slightly different from the old ones.
Thanks for taking the time to read this. I have had so many questions about the source of this whole system that I decided to explain its origins.
Sir Leonard